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bottomtothetap
05/29/2016 04:04PM
 
Sorry...link didn't work but right away I thought of Red Wings on his feet!
 
bottomtothetap
05/29/2016 03:57PM
 
quote nojobro: "quote mooseplums: "It was far and away the best tribute anyone could have...
It isn't in the photos, but I was particularly moved by a pair of his crocks, and some wool socks that were placed as though he just took them off for the night.
Rest well Jan!"




Crocks?"



You KNOW Kanoes would've done it...



 
nctry
05/22/2016 04:31PM
 
I think it's pretty neat when the memories focus around canoe tripping. So often people refer to it as an obsession. To me it's just a sort of life style... it's who we are. Dena, Greg and now Jan's services all within 6 months and had quite a canoeing theme to them. As far as this web site not being the same without them is true to a point, but this site is full of great people. We'll miss Jan of course. He was a big part of a lot that has gone on here. But attending the services I've attended and the activities put on by fellow members I'm reminded there are many more people that make Bwca.com what it is just like our fallen members. A band of brothers and sisters that of which most care deeply about each other. I'll never forget Jan's compassion for his fellow paddlers. But Friday I saw this same compassion in so many others here. Thank you all for being who you are. It's an honor to be a part of this group. And Dave (koda) thanks, I enjoyed meeting you when I did. BWPaddler, was great to meet you in person. Adam, keep up the good work. Jan, we miss you and thank you for the times we had with you. Rest in peace brother!
 
Mocha
05/22/2016 06:57PM
 
this looks very nice and comforting. was there an intermittant rain shower? hardly a camping trip w/o rain.

 
OldFingers57
05/22/2016 07:24PM
 
quote Tony: "











Here is a couple of other pictures from the celebration of life for Jan. It was an impressive service.

Tony"

That was really neat and fitting thing that they did with the canoe, campfire and the maps and paddle. A very fitting tribute to Kanoes.
R.I.P. fellow paddler.

 
Parnell
05/29/2016 08:58AM
 
such a wonderful way to celebrate his life... RIP Jan :)
 
GeoFisher
06/22/2016 10:21AM
 
Yea, I've also been off the site for a while. When I logged back on a few days ago, I too was stunned.


I had no idea. Sad for the community.



 
TheOriginalKoda
05/16/2016 12:32PM
 
Adam, please don't delete this.

I just spotted this thread and am truly saddened. Jan might have been a quick wit, but he had a slow heart. Once he warmed to you, he didn't cool off. Despite my occasional bumps with him, I came to appreciate that and learned to respect him.

I have a small filet knife he sold me for next to nothing. I think of him when I use it, which is often. Now I'll not only think of him, but send a wish for his wife and children's healing.

If there is a hereafter, Jan will be there poking everyone who shows up, just to see what they're made of. Then he'll welcome them and be their dedicated friend.


 
mooseplums
05/16/2016 03:58PM
 
quote mr.barley: "I plan on making it. I may still be in my work clothes, but I'll be there."
Wear your tripping clothes to work :)

 
AndySG
05/16/2016 06:29PM
 
quote TheOriginalKoda: "Adam, please don't delete this.

I just spotted this thread and am truly saddened. Jan might have been a quick wit, but he had a slow heart. Once he warmed to you, he didn't cool off. Despite my occasional bumps with him, I came to appreciate that and learned to respect him.

I have a small filet knife he sold me for next to nothing. I think of him when I use it, which is often. Now I'll not only think of him, but send a wish for his wife and children's healing.

If there is a hereafter, Jan will be there poking everyone who shows up, just to see what they're made of. Then he'll welcome them and be their dedicated friend."

That was very gracious and heartfelt Dave.
 
Kiporby
05/16/2016 06:56PM
 
quote TheOriginalKoda: "Adam, please don't delete this.

I just spotted this thread and am truly saddened. Jan might have been a quick wit, but he had a slow heart. Once he warmed to you, he didn't cool off. Despite my occasional bumps with him, I came to appreciate that and learned to respect him.

I have a small filet knife he sold me for next to nothing. I think of him when I use it, which is often. Now I'll not only think of him, but send a wish for his wife and children's healing.

If there is a hereafter, Jan will be there poking everyone who shows up, just to see what they're made of. Then he'll welcome them and be their dedicated friend."

Good to hear from you again, Dave. Thanks for posting that memory of Jan. Means a lot to me and others here who were good friends of him to hear of all the acts of kindness Jan did for others.


 
mr.barley
05/16/2016 11:26AM
 
I plan on making it. I may still be in my work clothes, but I'll be there.
 
JoeWilderness
05/15/2016 11:47PM
 
Bump.
 
dicecupmaker
05/16/2016 06:18AM
 
Wish I could go. Have to work. Thoughts will be with the family and BWCA.comers.
 
Mad_Angler
07/29/2016 03:52PM
 
Wow. I haven't been on in a while. I was quite shocked...


I never met Jan. I never really interacted with him much on the board. I knew the name and that was about it. But... I still feel a tremendous sense of loss and sadness.


RIP.
 
trailcherry
05/06/2016 11:42AM
 
I will be on my first trip of the year that day. I will have have a drink (lake water) and toast our BWCA.com brother.


R.I.P. Jan
 
oldgentleman
06/21/2016 03:20PM
 
I'm stunned.
I haven't been on the site much in the last couple years. I signed on just now and saw this at the top. I'll miss Jan's wit and opinions. Always a good conversationalist.


I bought a tent from Jan a few years ago.
I'll always think of him when I use it from now on.
 
tg
05/12/2016 11:04PM
 
I plan to be there.
 
mr.barley
05/20/2016 08:13PM
 
Best funeral ever. Jan would have loved it.
 
bellolake
05/20/2016 09:33PM
 
I talked to the lady who did the service as I was walking to my truck. She hoped nobody got offended when she swore while telling about Jan and Theresa's first canoe trip. I assured her that this crowd didn't offend that easily. Jan would have fallen off his chair laughing at the a**hole comment!
 
MNLindsey80
05/20/2016 11:41PM
 
quote BWPaddler: "

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Thanks for sharing these! Thought of Jan on our day trip to Kawishiwi falls today! Portage on.
 
ducks
05/21/2016 09:06AM
 
Thanks for sharing and thanks to all of you that were able to make it there. I wish I could have been there.
 
BWPaddler
05/20/2016 02:24PM
 
It was an amazing service, with chairs around the campfire and paddling gear lining the walls. The celebration MC wove a paddling narrative into the story of Jan's life and we all left with a polished rock to remember him with... plenty of tears were flowing, but plenty of laughter as well.


I didn't know Jan much outside this forum, but it's hard to imagine a more fitting celebration... and still hard to imagine he's gone.


So nice to put people's faces to their screen names. Sad that it was for an event such as this :( Tribute to Jan to see how many paddlers came out to pay our respects.


RIP kanoes



 
BWPaddler
05/20/2016 02:27PM
 



 
Zulu
05/20/2016 03:07PM
 
I wasn't able to stay for the service but did get to meet his wife and children. He leaves behind a wonderful family.
I liked the canoe, Zav paddles and campfire at the funeral home.
It was great to see so many BWCA.com members there. Some made a long journey to get there.

There was a very well done slide show featuring many photos of Jan and his family growing up. He had blonde hair then or he dyed it that way. I liked the photo of him holding his newborn baby. The photos showed the family side of Jan including his father. Also photos of friends over the years having fun. It helped me see a side of him other than a great outdoorsman and BWCA.com member.


I will miss him but his words will live on in me. I have always remembered his words of caution and safety on slippery portages. "You have to watch every step every time".


Rest in Peace kanoes.
 
schweady
05/20/2016 03:20PM
 
BW and Patrick, thanks.


I was okay until the maps/books/packing list photo. Tears... then chuckled while picturing him scratching off each of the packing list items, one-by-one. You're ready for anything now, Jan.

 
Mocha
05/20/2016 06:37PM
 
what a wonderful display of remembrance! i'm sure his family is comforted knowing he has such thoughtful and sincere friends.
 
cowdoc
05/20/2016 09:56PM
 
It was a glorious day and a wonderful celebration of life. Good to see a lot of fellow members there to share thoughts and memories. Driving up with Kip and butthead yesterday, I said that it really felt wrong to be headed to see Jan without gear in the trunk and canoes on the roof. But, after paying my final respects and making peace with it all....it felt right. Glad to share in your final portage my friend.

 
bapabear
05/20/2016 09:58PM
 
Thank you for sharing the photos and anecdotes. I was working in my backyard this morning and at 11:00 stopped and just looked up at the beautiful blue sky through the tree branches and reflected on what must have been going on at Jan's service. I was inspired to think of how much of God's beauty he had the experience to witness on his many trips. I wish that the thoughtful and beautiful setting and service you that attended have described to us bring a sense of peace and better understanding of Jan to his family and many friends.


This has been a sad and "different" experience for me. My daughter is a minister and I had a talk with her about how I have grieved over a fellow paddler I never met and wish that I had. It was agreed that modern technology has put us in situations like this that we never would have dreamed of years ago. I feel richer to have benefited from Jan's comments, wisdom, and wit over the years.


2 Corinthians 5
For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens.
 
Kiporby
05/03/2016 08:43PM
 
I was just given permission from the family to post the date and time for Jan's funeral service.

Here is the information:

Friday, May 20

Ballard-Sunder Funeral Home
4565 Pleasant St. SE
Prior Lake, MN 55372
(952) 447-2633

Visitation 9:30am
Celebration of life ceremony 11:00am

Lunch buffet immediately after at the VFW in Prior Lake
VFW Post 6208
16306 Main
Prior Lake, MN 55372
(952) 226-6208

Funeral Home Link
 
Kiporby
05/03/2016 09:25PM
 
Also, if you want to send the family cards you may send them to their address. I have been given permission to share the address with you since it is already public information.


16395 Mandan Ave SE
Prior Lake, MN 55372
 
Grandma L
05/03/2016 10:16PM
 
Thank you for the information. Are they requesting memorials to a specific charity?
 
520eek
05/04/2016 12:24AM
 
Thank you so much.

 
timatkn
05/04/2016 07:35AM
 
Thanks
 
Bogwalker
05/04/2016 06:02AM
 
Thanks for keeping us informed Kip
 
Trix
05/04/2016 06:36AM
 
Thanks Dan for the information.
 
Merganser
05/04/2016 07:28PM
 
Thanks Dan.
 
Kiporby
05/04/2016 12:00PM
 
To the top.
 
Kiporby
05/04/2016 04:36PM
 
Updated with the link to the funeral home.
 
Hawbakers
05/04/2016 06:03PM
 
Thank you!
 
BWPaddler
05/04/2016 02:14PM
 
OMG, I had no idea. :( Thanks for pinning it to the top for those of us checking in.
 
Hawbakers
05/04/2016 03:38PM
 
Thanks so much. I will be there.
 
nojobro
05/04/2016 03:48PM
 
I hope to be able to get out of work in order to come up, but it's 50/50 at this point. Thanks for the information.
 
nojobro
05/24/2016 10:13AM
 
quote nctry: "I think it's pretty neat when the memories focus around canoe tripping. So often people refer to it as an obsession. To me it's just a sort of life style... it's who we are. Dena, Greg and now Jan's services all within 6 months and had quite a canoeing theme to them. As far as this web site not being the same without them is true to a point, but this site is full of great people. We'll miss Jan of course. He was a big part of a lot that has gone on here. But attending the services I've attended and the activities put on by fellow members I'm reminded there are many more people that make Bwca.com what it is just like our fallen members. A band of brothers and sisters that of which most care deeply about each other. I'll never forget Jan's compassion for his fellow paddlers. But Friday I saw this same compassion in so many others here. Thank you all for being who you are. It's an honor to be a part of this group. And Dave (koda) thanks, I enjoyed meeting you when I did. BWPaddler, was great to meet you in person. Adam, keep up the good work. Jan, we miss you and thank you for the times we had with you. Rest in peace brother!"


Good reflection. Thanks, Ben!
 
ObiWenonahKenobi
05/24/2016 04:09PM
 
I have copied these photos and given them to my family with the instructions that this is what I want at my funeral.


What a fitting tribute to Kanoes.
 
nojobro
05/24/2016 10:15AM
 
quote mooseplums: "It was far and away the best tribute anyone could have...
It isn't in the photos, but I was particularly moved by a pair of his crocks, and some wool socks that were placed as though he just took them off for the night.
Rest well Jan!"



Crocks?
 
schweady
05/24/2016 02:05PM
 
quote nojobro: "Crocks?"
jan's dry camp shoes of choice. super lightweight comfort.

 
Kendra
05/23/2016 09:53PM
 
quote mooseplums: "It was far and away the best tribute anyone could have...
It isn't in the photos, but I was particularly moved by a pair of his crocks, and some wool socks that were placed as though he just took them off for the night.
Rest well Jan!"



I think Tony's wife has a picture of the crocks. ....kinda got me too!
 
mooseplums
05/23/2016 09:30AM
 
It was far and away the best tribute anyone could have...
It isn't in the photos, but I was particularly moved by a pair of his crocks, and some wool socks that were placed as though he just took them off for the night.
Rest well Jan!
 
Tony
05/22/2016 05:35PM
 











Here are a couple of other pictures from the celebration of life for Jan. It was an impressive service.

Tony
 
Jackfish
05/20/2016 09:26AM
 
^^^ What Adam said. ^^^ Wish I could be there.
 
nojobro
05/20/2016 12:40PM
 
Wish I could have been there. RIP, Jan.
 
Hawbakers
05/19/2016 08:41PM
 
quote Zulu: "I may not be able to attend the service for kanoes because there is a Memorial Service for a close friend of mine at the same time. I really hope I can attend both but they are 50 miles apart. I regret not being able to meet his family and spend time with other BWCA.com members celebrating his life and memory if I can't make it.

I always admired kanoes for going to Memorial services for BWCA.com members like Amok and others and sharing what they were like. I think he took off work to do this a few times. I remember the nice canoeing/portage pack display at Amok's service that kanoes took photos of. I believe it was very important for him to attend these services. That was very kind and thoughtful of him.

If it seems appropriate could someone take a few photos of any memorial displays that are there and post them here?

Thanks."

Will do, Pat!


 
adam
05/20/2016 06:40AM
 
Today a great man is being put to rest on earth. I am regrettably out of town, but will be with everyone in spirit.

There have been so many great things said about Jan. But in short words, this community would not be the same had it not been for Jan, and it won't be the same without him.

We will miss you on the site, in the chatroom, but most of all in person.


 
Twins87
05/19/2016 11:27AM
 
Unfortunately I can't swing taking time off of work tomorrow, mostly because I am taking time next week for our first overnight canoe trip of the year. I didn't know Jan well at all, especially compared to so many others here, but wanted to attend if I could.

I will be thinking of his family and all of his friends tomorrow.

And will definitely toast him next week when we are on our trip. He's the reason my daughter and I have our spiffy new flying moose knit hats, which we will be taking on our trip next week. I'll think of him every time I wear it. If he hadn't posted a picture of himself it in, we wouldn't have been able to purchase them.


 
Zulu
05/19/2016 08:06AM
 
I may not be able to attend the service for kanoes because there is a Memorial Service for a close friend of mine at the same time. I really hope I can attend both but they are 50 miles apart. I regret not being able to meet his family and spend time with other BWCA.com members celebrating his life and memory if I can't make it.

I always admired kanoes for going to Memorial services for BWCA.com members like Amok and others and sharing what they were like. I think he took off work to do this a few times. I remember the nice canoeing/portage pack display at Amok's service that kanoes took photos of. I believe it was very important for him to attend these services. That was very kind and thoughtful of him.

If it seems appropriate could someone take a few photos of any memorial displays that are there and post them here?

Thanks.


 
mooseplums
05/05/2016 11:55AM
 
Thanks Dan
 
Darcyn
05/05/2016 01:00PM
 
Thanks
 
Sheepdogged
05/05/2016 01:07PM
 
Paddle tip to Kanoes
 
Magic
05/05/2016 09:38AM
 
Thanks for the update.
 
mr.barley
05/05/2016 10:21AM
 
Thanks Kip



 
MNLindsey80
05/04/2016 10:22PM
 
Shoot, we will be heading up to the BWCA that day. I will paddle & portage in memory of Kanoes!